You know what you want to say…
…until it’s time to say it.
You’re great at your job.
It’s the tough conversations that keep you up at night.
Then the doubts creep in.
You just don't always know how to say it.
Or perhaps you do...
...until you're actually in the conversation.
That's when the questions begin.
Am I overreacting?
What if they take it the wrong way?
I don't want to upset them.
Maybe I'll wait until the timing feels better.
So you bite your tongue.
You let it slide.
And somehow you find yourself carrying the conversation... long before it happens, or long after it's over.
It's exhausting.
This is where Tough Conversations Made Easy begins.
Before you work out what to say, I help you get clear on what matters to you.
Hear yourself.
Trust yourself.
Back yourself.
Express yourself.
So when the conversation comes, you have words you can stand behind.
Got a difficult conversation on your mind?
Get clear before you speak.
Let's work it out together.
The Tough Conversation Assistant helps you work out what you really want to say and creates a personalised script that feels true to you.
Answer a few questions about what happened, what matters to you and what you’d like to achieve.
In just a few minutes, you’ll have words you can stand behind.
And it’s completely free.
No generic scripts. Your conversation. Your values. Your words.
What makes this different
Most approaches to difficult conversations begin with what to say.
I begin with you.
Before you work out the words, I help you get clear on what matters to you.
Hear yourself.
Trust yourself.
Back yourself.
Express yourself.
So when the conversation comes, you have words you can stand behind.
“I’ve finally discovered why I’ve been second guessing myself all these years. I feel blessed.”
— AC, New Zealand
“Working with Julianne is like having a calm, wise guide in your corner. She gives you the tools to stand your ground without losing your kindness.”
— YB, New Zealand
Hi, I’m Julianne Harvey.
And this is why I do this work.
For years, I’d replay difficult conversations in my mind.
Wait for better timing.
Hope they’d somehow become easier.
Sometimes they did. Often they didn’t.
Then I realised something.
The more clearly I understood what mattered to me, the easier it became to find words I could genuinely stand behind.
That changed the way I approached difficult conversations… and eventually became Tough Conversations Made Easy.
Today, I help capable women have difficult conversations with calm, centred, kind clarity… so they can feel proud of how they showed up.
Start here.
You don't have to figure out the right words on your own.
Whether you've got one conversation on your mind or you're ready to change the way you approach difficult conversations altogether...I'd love to help.
Got a conversation on your mind?
Get clear on what you want to say and receive a personalised script in just a few minutes.
Want to get better at tough conversations?
Work with me to build the clarity, self-trust and practical skills to approach difficult conversations differently.